Navarthri 2010

"Sivanukku Oru raathiri, Ambaalukku Onbadhu raathiri' is a general saying (For Lord Shiva you celebrate Maha Sivarathri, for Goddess we celebrate 9 nights - 3 days each for Goddess Durga, Lakshmi and Saraswathi who depict Strength, Prosperity, Knowledge/Wisdom respectively). Every year celebrating this 9 day festival is something special and people across all ages eagerly look forward to this.

I have heard that the arrangement of dolls and clay figurines in 3,5,7,9 steps is said to symbolize the evolution of life from being gods to humans.

Generally the order with which they arrange the dolls would be that the creators are arranged in the top steps / tiers followed by Rishis, Saadhus and the last step(s) would typically consist depicting the social life behavior ( Chettiyaars, Army man, Wedding, cricket etc). While there are many reasons stated for the significance of golu, I have a feeling it is also a thank-giving way for the potterers.

Generally visitors come to every house in the evenings and adore the arrangements, discuss many things. It is also a way to mingle with other members in the host family. Spicy lentils is offered as prasadam and distributed to the visitors.
When I say mingling with members - a most wanted thing in the apartment these days as we do not know who is our neighbor. This gives a way to shed differences and socialize well.

Many festivals have taken a convenience. Some celebrate it for 9 days while some keep for 3 days. It is also considered to be good if you give vethelai paakku ( betel leaves nuts) to people who visit home... A reminiscenting memory when I used to be child and sing songs to get sundal(only if you sing, you get mind you). I vividly remember all my inviting occasions where I went to houses and invited them.

The next day / within 2 days based on convenience, everyone visited our house to see the dolls and sang songs. Only of late, the reciprocation of visiting homes (also heard the same from another friend) has come down as priorities differ for individuals. During one of my visits to houses, I heard from an elder person that during this time, it is supposed to be punniyam / sacred when you GIVE vethalai paakku and RECEIVE vethalai paakku...

I had a great time this year. I personally visited many houses and invited people and they came to our house. We truly enjoyed their visits. Hoping it continues the next year. Adding star to this was the Discount purchase of dolls where we got it almost for half a price(May not be the best deal.. Who cares.. As long as you bargain, you always win right!!!).

Signing off
Hema

HOPE has Answers!

Having shared my views about Navarathri, this year it was very special to me. The reason being a thought that came true. I was wanting to buy Trinity and keep it in the golu. When I did initial shopping, I spotted it in a shop but somehow could not buy. But the thought was lingering in my mind and I was sharing it with amma. At the same time, I had a hope and told that the trinity will come home in some form or the other. During 5th or 6th day, I visited the same shop to check out if it is available. Should I say bad time? - The shop where I spotted it was not there. The shop was temporarily evacuated. It was a big big disappointment for me but the hope kept answering me 'Don't worry, you will get it".

On a Vijayadasami day, apparently my star birthday too as always, my sister, amma and I went to do discount sale shopping for next year for my sister. As we were buying for my sister, my amma spotted the trinity and took money from me and bought it. All I did was checking the piece. It was a big surprise!!. My HOPE came true. It did come a little late but exactly the way I wanted it to be!!

That was a big moment for me. For a minute, I turned in to a 3 year old child fantasied by the toy and rejoiced with the possession.

I now hope they shower their blessings on me also in Classical Music. I am a beginner in music with very little or no prior knowledge (should I say .00000000000000000000000000000000000000000001 percent).

Signing off

Hema